If you’re unsure where to start, check out our tips on breaking the ice.
Join Clubs and Societies
One of the best ways to meet like-minded people is through Ulster University’s Student Union (UUSU) clubs and societies. Whether you're into sports, gaming, arts, debating, or volunteering, there's likely something for you.
Not only do these groups allow you to pursue your interests, but they’re also a great way to bond with people who share your passions.
Don’t miss the Freshers’ Fairs where you can explore different clubs and sign up for activities. Don’t be afraid to try something new, you might discover a new hobby and make friends along the way!
- Derry~Londonderry Tuesday 24 September
- Coleraine Wednesday 25 September
- Belfast Thursday 26 September
Attend Social Events
In the first few weeks of university, there are plenty of social events designed to help students mingle. From karaoke and quiz nights to campus tours and orientation sessions, these gatherings are low-pressure opportunities to strike up conversations with others.
Everyone is in the same boat, eager to make friends, so it’s easier than it might feel to approach someone and introduce yourself.
It can be nerve-wracking to attend events alone, but often you’ll find that other people are by themselves too, which makes for an easy opener. Just say, "Hi, I’m [your name], do you mind if I join you?"
Student in the UUSU Bar
Be Open and Approachable
Friendships form when people feel comfortable around each other, so making an effort to be open and approachable is key. Simple things like smiling, making eye contact, and offering friendly greetings go a long way.
Sitting next to someone in class or in a cafe and striking up casual conversation can lead to meaningful connections.
Small talk may feel awkward at first, but it’s a stepping stone to deeper conversations. Ask about someone’s course, their background, or even their experience adjusting to university life, it’s a great way to find common ground.
Group Projects and Study Groups
While group projects and study groups are essential for your studies, they’re also perfect opportunities to build friendships. Collaborating with classmates naturally fosters teamwork and conversation. You might end up spending a lot of time with these people, so it’s a good chance to get to know them on a personal level.
Propose study sessions after class, or suggest grabbing a coffee after your group work. It helps take the connection from professional to social.
Group Study
Be Patient and Authentic
It’s important to remember that making friends takes time, so be patient with the process. Don’t rush or force friendships; authentic connections form when you are yourself and open to meeting people gradually. You may not find your "best friend" in the first week, but by staying active, approachable, and open, you’ll naturally develop friendships over time.
Some days might feel lonely, especially if you’re far from home, but remember that building a social network is part of the journey, and everyone is in the same position.