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There are many practical issues to consider when you have a hearing coming up and you do not have a legal representative. If you have a legal representative, they will explain whether you need to attend the hearing, how to attend or where to meet and what to do.

If you need special arrangements, such as an interpreter or assistance with a disability, make sure the court is aware of your needs before a hearing.

The procedural rules for attending hearings in Family Proceedings cases can be found in The Family Proceedings Rules (Northern Ireland) 1996.

Formats of hearings

There are three different ways of attending family court hearings:

  • In-person where the parties, their lawyers and the judge are in the same court room.
  • Remote or online hearings where all parties attend remotely via video links or phone. The judge and court staff may be in the court room but other persons, such as the other party or a Children's Court Officer, may not be. In a Family Proceedings Court two lay magistrates may also attend remotely but may not be visible of the video link.
  • Hybrid hearings where the judge and at least one party attend in the court room while others join by phone or video link.

Guidance on attending in-person or remotely is published by the Lady Chief Justice's Office.

In-person hearings

If you have been notified that your hearing is to take place in court, talk to your legal representative about how to attend. If you do not have a legal representative, you should receive instructions on how to attend the court office.

Take the letter requesting your attendance with you to the court.

To give you an idea of what an in-person hearing in the Family Proceedings Court looks like, see the image below.

If you have a legal representative, you can ask them about what to do when you arrive. If you are representing yourself, you may find the following helpful:

  • On arrival

    Make sure you arrive at the court building at least 15 minutes before your hearing.

    When you arrive you will need to go through security. Your bags will be put through a metal detector. This is similar to those used at airports.

    Inside the court building you can ask the security guards or staff at the reception desk for directions to the court room. Show the court staff the letter you have received from the court telling you to attend the hearing.

    When you find the court room, let the security guard or court clerk know you have arrived. The security guard sits inside the courtroom at the door.

    If the judge is not already there you can speak to the court clerk who sits near to where the judge will sit. Tell the clerk or the security guard that your case is to be heard that day and that are representing yourself. The clerk and the security guard will have a list of cases to be heard that day and can check you are on the list.

    Court lists will be inside the court and not available to members of the public. The clerk or the security guard will let the judge know that you are at the court.

    If the court proceedings have already started, you cannot enter the court room. You need to alert the security guard or court clerk that you have arrived by waiting by the door and speaking to them when they come out to call the next case.

    You will be asked to wait outside the courtroom and the security guard will call you in when the judge is ready to hear your case.

  • The waiting room

    You may be asked to wait in the corridor outside the courtroom until your case is called.

    The other party may be there and they may have a legal representative with them.

    They may want to speak to you about your case. This is normal. It is common for lawyers to discuss the issues in the case before going into the court room to try to reach a compromise or agreement on them. This can help to speed up the hearing and reduce the number of issues that the judge will have to decide – see Agreeing a decision out of court.

  • How long will I need to be at court?

    The letter you get from the court will tell you what time you should arrive. You may need to wait to be called into the court room. How long your hearing takes will depend on the judge and the circumstances of your case. Try to give yourself as much flexibility as possible in case there are any delays or the hearing takes a long time.

  • What to do I when I enter the court room?

    When you are called into the court room, the judge may tell you where to sit or you can take a seat at one of the desks or you can ask the judge where to sit - see the sketch of a court room below. In the Family Proceedings Court, two Lay Magistrates may also be seated alongside the judge. The judge consults with the Lay Magistrates on the case. At a hearing in the Family Care Centre the judge will be seated alone.

    If the judge has given permission for you to have a McKenzie Friend attend the hearing with you, they can sit beside you in the court room. Make sure they can be available for several hours in case your hearing is delayed.

    If you are representing yourself, the judge will usually ask the solicitors and barristers who are in the room but are not involved in your case to leave.

    Be polite when speaking in court and do not worry about what to call the judge – Sir or Madam is fine. In Magistrates’ and County courts, you will hear judges being called ‘Your worship’. In County Courts, you will hear judges being called ‘Your Honour.’ For more on how to participate in the hearing - see During the hearing below.

    There are some useful videos online showing what family courts in England are like, like this one in Bristol - see The Family Court without a Lawyer - Video 2.

    This is helpful to show you what to expect at court but some of the terms or language will be different. In England, a CCO is known as a Cafcass Officer. The Court Clerk is referred to in the video as the Court Officer.

Remote hearings

If you have been notified that your hearing will be held remotely online, talk to your legal representative about how to join. If you do not have a legal representative, you should receive detailed instructions from the court office on how to join the remote hearing via a live video link through Sightlink or another online platform.

Be aware that the hearing may not start at the time given in your notification. It may be delayed with little warning. Or it may be postponed at short notice. Email the court office if you are unsure whether your hearing is delayed. If the court office has your email address, they will email you with a new time and link if it is postponed to a different time.

'How to join' guides

You will usually receive an email shortly before the time specified in the instructions to let you know that your case is about to be called. Once it has started, the remote hearing will be locked to ensure that only you and the other parties can hear and see what is happening.

The judge and court staff may be in the court room but other persons, such as the other party, or a Child Court Officer, may not be. In a Family Proceedings Court two lay magistrates may also attend remotely, but may not be visible on the video link.

Stay connected

If the link does not work or drops during the hearing, you should immediately email or telephone the court office to let them know and to make sure you are not locked out of the hearing and can re-enter.

Hybrid hearings

The hearing format may be ‘hybrid’. A hybrid hearing is where some people attend in the courtroom itself and others attend remotely via Sightlink or another online platform.

In the Family Proceedings Court, two Lay Magistrates may also be present but may not be visible on Sightlink. They accompany the judge and consult on the case.

You will either attend the hearing remotely or in person in the courtroom.

Cannot attend your hearing

Both the applicant and respondent parties are usually expected to attend hearings to hear the other side’s arguments and receive information about the case, such as directions or Orders that the judge makes.

If you have a legal representative acting for you, your legal representative will attend the hearings and may speak for you in the hearings. You may have a barrister too, depending on how complex your case is or which court your case is heard in – see Which court deals with family cases.

Your legal representative will advise if you need to attend the hearing. If the hearing is in person, you may be asked to wait in the court’s waiting room where your legal representative will consult with you. If you attend the hearing - online or in person - the judge may ask you questions.

If you are representing yourself, you must attend the hearings so that your views are presented to the judge. If you do not attend, the hearing may take place without you.

If you cannot attend a hearing, here are your options:

  • Request an adjournment

    If you are not represented and you cannot attend a scheduled hearing or you cannot provide the documents requested on time for the hearing, you can ask the judge to postpone (or ‘adjourn’) the hearing to a later date.

    You can ask the other party to agree to postpone the hearing. If they agree, it may support your request to the judge to adjourn.

    A postponed hearing is called an adjournment.

    As soon as you know you cannot attend you should contact the court and request an adjournment. You may be required to formally request an adjournment through Form C2 - available from Department of Justice Family Forms and also on this website - see Applying in ongoing proceedings.

    The judge decides whether an adjournment is required or justified on the basis of your request and whether it is in the best interests of the child, as well as other factors related to the case. The judge may decide not to adjourn.

    If the judge does not adjourn a listed hearing and you do not have a legal representative, it is advisable that you attend the hearing as it could take place without you and the judge could issue directions or make an Order in your absence.

    If it is impossible for you to attend and you do not have a legal representative, you may want to consider instructing one to attend the hearing to represent you.

  • Not attending a hearing

    If you are represented, ask your legal representative whether you need attend your hearings.

    If you are representing yourself, you must attend all of your hearings because there is no one to represent you at them. If you cannot attend, you should contact the court office by email in the first instance to let them know. For court office contact details - see NICTS contact details or Court office emails.

    If you do not attend, the judge may make an Order or issue directions in your absence. Also, you will not hear what the other party said. There is no audio recording or written record taken of hearings in the Family Proceedings Court.

    You may need to contact the court office to ask if the judge made any Orders or directions in your absence. These will be sent out in the post, usually within a week of the hearing. If you require a court Order earlier, you can email the court office to arrange to collect a copy of the Order from the office. You should bring identification to collect the Order.

  • Request a new date if you cannot submit your documents on time

    If you are not represented and are delayed in preparing your submission, email the office to let them know and request a new submission date from the judge - see NICTS contact details or Court office emails.

Checklist: before you attend a hearing

Attending a hearing can be a stressful experience and it can be easy to get muddled or forget things, especially if you are self-representing. Here is a list of things to organise before a hearing:

  • Letter showing the time, date & location of the hearing

    You will receive a letter or email from the court with the time, date and location of the hearing. Take this with you to the court. If you are represented, your legal representative will tell you what you need to do.

  • Location of the court & parking for in-person hearing

    If you have to attend your hearing in person, make sure you can find the location of the court and know how long it will take to get there - see NI Court offices directory.

    You may have to leave your car in a car park for the whole day.

  • Sightlink or Webex access info for remote hearing 

    If you have a legal representative, they can tell you how to join.

    If you are unrepresented, you can access the hearing by yourself. On the day of the hearing, the court clerk will send you an email to tell you how and when to join. Make sure they have the correct email address for you and be prepared to join as soon as the clerk’s email arrives. If the link drops, email the court clerk immediately to ask to re-enter the hearing.

  • Device to use to join a remote hearing 

    If you do not have a legal representative, you will need to access Sightlink or another online platform on a phone or a tablet or computer with Internet access.

  • Email address of the court clerk for remote hearing

    If the links drops, you can email the court clerk who sent you the email about how and when to join on the day ask to be let back into the hearing.

  • Time off work

    In-person hearing

    If you are attending the court in person, you should arrive in good time for the time given. It is possible you will have to wait before your hearing starts. Allow a few additional hours in case of delay or the hearing goes on for longer than expected.

    Remote hearing

    You will need to be available to join your hearing at the time given. It is possible you will have to wait before your hearing starts. You will be given an approximate time for your hearing and you should be ready for this time. Allow a few additional hours in case of delay or the hearing goes on for longer than expected.

  • Childcare 

    If you would normally be with your child, make arrangements with someone else to look after them or collect them from school in case you have to be available for your hearing all day.

  • Quiet private space for remote hearing

    The hearing is private and you will need to be able to follow what is happening. Find a quiet space with privacy for the duration of the hearing.

  • Be on top of your case

    Have to hand your copies of the documents requested by the judge for the hearing. For information on how to send documents to the court – see Submitting documents for your case.

    If the judge asked you to submit a document and you have not done so, you will need to explain why this is.

    Have readily available copies of all case document in case you need to refer to them.

    Check your notes from previous hearings so you are familiar with the statements and other papers, know what you want to say, prepare questions you want to ask the judge or the other party, and prepare answers to questions likely to come up..

    For more on preparing what you will say in a hearing - see Preparing your case

  • Legal representative's contact details

    If you have a legal representative, check with them how you will be in contact with them during and after the hearing.

  • Support - a McKenzie Friend

    If you have someone who is supporting you, you will need the judge’s permission for them to attend the hearing with you – see Get support – McKenzie Friends.

    If the judge has given permission for your McKenzie Friend to attend, you will need to share the link to the remote hearing with your McKenzie Friend.

    If your McKenzie Friend is joining the hearing, make sure they can be available for several hours in case your hearing is delayed or goes on for longer than expected.

  • Pen & paper

    You will need to note down what was said in the hearing and what the judge has asked you to do.

    In the Family Proceedings Court, there is no audio record of the hearing and no stenographer to take a written record. You are not allowed to record the hearing.

    Making notes on the main issues, dates and what was said will help you keep track of what happens in the hearing. It is easy to lose track.

    Make a note of anything you do not understand and ask the judge to repeat or explain when it is your turn to speak.

  • Drink & snack

    In case you have a long wait, have a drink and snack to hand.

During a hearing

The judge leads the hearing and asks those present to speak in turn. All comments and explanations are directed to the judge. Anyone wishing to speak, asks the judge.

In the Family Proceedings Court, two Lay Magistrates may also be seated with the judge. The judge consults the Lay Magistrates on the case. At a hearing in the Family Care Centre, the judge will be seated alone.

The points raised and discussed in the hearing depend on the purpose of the hearing and the circumstances of the case.

In England and Wales, guidance for judges on how to treat both sides equally and fairly is available in the Equal Treatment Bench Book. There is no equivalent book in Northern Ireland but judges here are aware of the it. It has a chapter on people who represent themselves.

Who speaks and when

The judge will decide who will speak first in the hearing, although usually it is the applicant who speaks first.

They may ask you questions or invite you to explain what your case is about or what you want to raise in the hearing. Or the judge may ask the other party to speak first. If they are represented, their legal representative will speak to the judge.

You only speak to the judge and never directly to the other party or their legal representative.

If the judge asks someone to give evidence during the hearing, you should not ask questions until the judge gives you permission to do so. If you have not been given the opportunity to respond and you wish to, then raise your hand to attract the judge’s attention.

If you have a McKenzie Friend, they can whisper things to you and take notes, but they cannot speak to the judge directly unless the judge asks them something directly.

Never interrupt

You should not interrupt anyone who is speaking. Allow them to finish, even if you do not agree with what they are telling the judge.

You can make notes to remind you of any points you want to challenge or respond to. After the other party has finished, the judge should let you respond, or you can ask to respond.

Ask for clarification

If you do not hear what someone says or do not understand what is going on, you can attract the judge’s attention politely and ask them to explain.

The judge may ask if you understand what has been said and it is important to tell them if there is anything you are not sure about. This will help the judge to make sure that your case can go ahead without any confusion.

It is advisable to explain back to the judge to make sure you have understood.

Gather your thoughts

It is possible something will come up that you did not expect or you do not know how to react to.

If you have a legal representative, they may ask the judge for some time to talk to you to hear your response. If you are representing yourself, you may ask the judge to pause the hearing to give yourself time to gather your thoughts.

Legal language in the court room

The judge and lawyers may use legal terms that you may not have heard before. If you do not understand something, you can ask for an explanation when it is your turn to speak or raise your hand and ask the judge to explain.

For definitions of some terms - see Legal jargon buster.

Here are some of the most common terms used in court:

Adjourn - When the judge postpones a court hearing, either for a short break or until a later date, the hearing is adjourned.

Affidavit - (pronounced ‘aff-fid-day-vit’)A written statement which is sworn by the person who wrote it to be true in the presence of someone legally qualified to administer an oath.

Applicant - The applicant is the person asking or applying to the court for a court Order.

Call over - An occasion in court when the judge fixes the dates for case hearings. It can also be a review by the judge of the day’s cases to check they are ready to go ahead.

Contact - The arrangements between the child and the parent that the child does not live with that set out how and when the parent and child will see each other.

Ex parte - (pronounced ‘ex-part-tay’) A request or other action made in a court where only the person making the request or bringing the other action is involved and the other side is not given any notice.

Pass the case - When a case is passed, it means it is postponed to later in the day or until the parties have discussed matters outside of the court.

Residence - The arrangements for where the child lives until they reach the age of 16.

Respondent - The respondent is the person who is responding to an application or appeal brought by the applicant.

Before you leave a hearing

A hearing - either online and in person -  will cover a lot of details about your case. If you are self-representing, it is a good idea to check you have made notes of important information before you leave the hearing:

  • A note of what the judge has asked you to do for the next hearing
  • A note of the date(s) that the judge has asked you to submit documents to the court
  • Date of next hearing
  • If this is a final hearing, a note of what will be contained in the judge’s Order
  • A note of any appointment with the Court Children’s Officer, if relevant
  • Contact details of the Court Children’s Officer, if relevant
  • Contact details of the lawyer for the other party.

Possible outcomes of a hearing

Each hearing may have several different outcomes:

  • Judge requests documents

    The judge may ask for further documents to be provided, such as a statement of evidence or a position statement or other information and evidence to help make a decision - see Preparing case documents.

    The judge will inform the parties when they should submit these documents to court.

    Only documents and statements that the judge has asked for can be given to the judge and/or the other party.

    If you want to submit other information which you believe is important for the case, such as notes from medical consultations, videos or text messages, you must make an application to the court for permission, either during a hearing or using a Form C2 – see Applying in ongoing proceedings. This will request permission to present these documents to the court for the case.

    If you want to change a document which has already been submitted, you have to ask in writing for permission to change it.

    If you want to present expert evidence, such as medical reports or any other type of report prepared by an expert witness, you must obtain the judge’s permission. An application should be made using Form C2 and sent to all parties to the proceedings - see Forms for family court.

    If the judge agrees for an expert to present evidence, one will be appointed. The expert may prepare a report and examine the child or parent and give evidence to the court.

  • Judge appoints Court Children's Officer

    The judge may also consider if a Court Children’s Officer (CCO) needs to be involved - see Court Children's Officer. If they consider it is in the best interests of the child, a CCO may be appointed to provide a report on the child.

  • Judge makes interim Order

    The judge may make a temporary Order, such as an interim Contact Order, to put arrangements into place until the final Order or another interim Order is made.

    The judge may order contact takes place immediately either directly or indirectly and this could include supervised contact at a contact centre. This does not mean the judge has reached a final decision.

  • Judge appoints Guardian ad litem

    If the judge is concerned about the welfare of the child in a case, they can ask a third party to represent the interests of the child. This person is called a Guardian ad litem. They provide information about the welfare of the child so that the judge can make a decision in the child’s best interests.

  • Judge sets date of next hearing

    At the end of the hearing, if a further hearing is required, the judge will set the date.

  • Judge makes a final Order

    The judge may make a final Order at any time of the proceedings, but the final Order is usually made in the final hearing. The Order will be drafted and sent to both parties.

  • Judge makes an Order restricting new applications being made to the court

    In some circumstances, a judge will make an Article 179(14) Order. This means that someone who normally has an automatic right to make a request to the court has to ask the court’s permission before making any more applications. For example, a parent who does not live with their child.

    A judge may make this Order if they:

    - believe that the parties are hostile and may make or have made repeated applications to the court in bad faith; or

    - decide that the parties need a break from litigation to let the arrangements made for the child settle; or

    - decide it is beneficial for the child that there are no new applications for a period of time; or

    - believe that applications are being made without any valid legal basis.

    The judge may make an Article 179(14) Order even if neither of the parties applied for one.

When will I receive the court Order?

Court Orders are posted out by the court service and usually take a week to arrive.

If you do not have a legal representative, court Orders cannot be emailed directly to you by the court, but you can collect your court Order in person from the court building.

If you wish to collect the Order, you should email the court office to let them know in advance and bring some identification with you when you collect it - see NICTS contact details or Court office emails.

If you have a legal representative, ask them about when and how the court Order will arrive.